You must realize that If you want to get girls or women to be attracted to you that it will not be based on your looks or how nice your car is or how much money you have. If you want to know what girls or women are looking for, you would have to ask them, wouldn’t you?  But if you asked what a girl or a woman was looking for your chances might be slim because a female really doesn’t want a guy asking her what she is looking for.  A  female simply like a guy who is confident in his approach.

So, the question is – How do you approach a female?  How do you appear to be confident with appearing arrogant? The simple answer lies in psychology. Psychology is essential to the success of all relationships. So, whether you are dealing with your friends or if you are in a social situation, you have to use psychology so it is no different with attracting women.

 If you learn the correct rules of psychology, you can be a winner in the game of seduction.  An example of a psychological tactic that would increase a guy’s chances of getting a date with a girl or woman is called options limitations and it works because of  human nature.  People usually rebel when they are given only one option. However, when you present people with two to three choices, they make the choice from the options that are given to them because they feel that they are respected.

Carefully constructing what you say is a rule that you can use when you are trying to attract a girl or woman.  An example of this would be to not directly ask a girl or a woman for her phone number.  Instead, you can give her choices such as inviting her for a drink the next day, or for lunch, or exchange numbers. If you only give her one option, there is a high possibility that she will not accept your option but she will give you alternatives. In other words, when someone is given options, they feel respected and they choose one of the options. Use this psychological tactic to impress upon the girl or woman that they are various options available.

If you want this tactic to be effective, you will have to separate the choices you give the girl or woman with the word “or”.  The use of the word “or” means that you have to make a choice. Don’t count on luck to be successful in a romantic relationship.

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