Hooking Up: Sex, Dating, and Relationships on Campus

April 7, 2010 by tipsfordating
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Read the Gawker Review

Listen to her NPR Interview

The Sociology of "Hooking Up": Author Interview on Inside Higher Ed

Newsweek: Campus Sexperts

Hookup culture creates unfamiliar environment - to parents, at least

Hooking Up: What Educators Need to Know - An op-ed on CHE by the author

It happens every weekend: In a haze of hormones and alcohol, groups of male and female college students meet at a frat party, a bar, or hanging out in a dorm room, and then hook up for an evening of sex first, questions later. As casually as the sexual encounter begins, so it often ends with no strings attached; after all, it was "just a hook up." While a hook up might mean anything from kissing to oral sex to going all the way, the lack of commitment is paramount.

Hooking Up is an intimate look at how and why college students get together, what hooking up means to them, and why it has replaced dating on college campuses. In surprisingly frank interviews, students reveal the circumstances that have led to the rise of the booty call and the death of dinner-and-a-movie. Whether it is an expression of postfeminist independence or a form of youthful rebellion, hooking up has become the only game in town on many campuses.

In Hooking Up, Kathleen A. Bogle argues that college life itself promotes casual relationships among students on campus. The book sheds light on everything from the differences in what young men and women want from a hook up to why freshmen girls are more likely to hook up than their upper-class sisters and the effects this period has on the sexual and romantic relationships of both men and women after college. Importantly, she shows us that the standards for young men and women are not as different as they used to be, as women talk about "friends with benefits" and "one and done" hook ups.

Breaking through many misconceptions about casual sex on college campuses, Hooking Up is the first book to understand the new sexual culture on its own terms, with vivid real-life stories of young men and women as they navigate the newest sexual revolution.

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Thoughtful, Contemporary Analysis
 
Review Date: March 15, 2008
Reviewer: Sally, New York State
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book! It's an in depth analysis of the culture of "hooking up" that could be applied to many college campuses across the United States. Kathleen Bogle does a excellent job of breaking down the jargon and stereotypes that surround the often ambiguous nature of college students' sexual relationships. Despite the academic approach of her research, the book is engrossing and easy to read, drawing upon the words of her research participants, college students, to bring depth and texture to her investigation. This book has such a wide appeal for college students, parents, educators and any others who are interested in relationship patterns and sexuality. The author effectively describes a cultural phenomenon without taking a political or philosophical point of view. As an educator, I am glad we have this research to better inform education related to relationships.
A great read!!
 
Review Date: February 11, 2008
Reviewer: KAD, Orefield, PA United States
This book just validated my entire college experience! The interviews Bogle did with college men and women show the true disparity between the sexes when it comes to hooking up. I was always the girl "hoping it would lead to something" and always seemed to find the guy who was thinking the opposite. Bottom line, I laughed out loud at many of the interviews and how they tied in with my experiences, and those of my girlfriends, on campus. Also, now that I am a parent, I would strongly recommend this book to parents of first-time college students so they have a clue as to what's going on on campus and how to talk to their son or daughter about it.
Very Impressive
 
Review Date: February 15, 2008
Reviewer: wfb916,
I just finished reading Hooking Up. What impressed me the most is that the author let the people she interviewed tell their stories so that it was the college students and twenty-something's themselves who reveal what hooking up is and how it affects them. I really appreciated that author was not judgmental and I bet that is why everyone who was interviewed seemed so forthcoming.

I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is interested in learning more about what it's like to be a single man or woman today - including college students, young adults and their parents. I think women especially will find it eye opening.
"Hooking Up" by Dr. Kathleen Bogle
 
Review Date: September 9, 2008
Reviewer: K.Early, Washington, D.C.
'Hooking Up' is a wonderfully written investigation of "the new dating": what it is, how it works, and the effects that it has on the young men and women (who are either willingly or unwillingly caught up in the hook up culture). Dr. Bogle interviews both college students and recent alumni during her research and lets these voices shine through in her work. This book in interesting, relevant, and insightful. I would recommend it to anyone interested in college life, male/female relations, or contemporary culture in general.
A great read.
 
Review Date: July 6, 2009
Reviewer: Nicola Lightfoot,
Even though I am no longer attending college, I ran across this book and thought it sounded interesting. It's about hooking up on cmapus, obviously, and it a social study into what college students are doing. It's mostly for fun but sometimes there are other factors involved. I thought the writer did a tremendous job on it and every college student should read. Another one that seems intesting on this topic---Unhooked: How Young Women Pursue Sex, Delay Love and Lose at Both.

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