The Ten Commandments of Dating, completely revised and updated, offers hope and sanity to singles who are sick and tired of the dating scene. Many people are tired of pouring time, energy, and money into relationships that start off great and end with heartache. Because of that, they need The Ten Commandments of Dating to give them the hard-hitting, black-and-white, practical guidelines that will address their questions and frustrations about dating. Revised and updated for a new generation of daters, this guide will help men and women keep their head as they search for the desires of their hearts. The Ten Commandments of Dating isn't more relationship advice; it's relationship common sense. If people keep the ten commandments of dating, their relationships will run more smoothly, they will be protected from the pain of contemporary dating pitfalls, and they'll be on their way to building living, lasting relationships. |
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 The best, most practical dating book around |
| Review Date: April 26, 1999 |
| Reviewer: G. Williams, Louisiana |
| Forget all those books that tell you that men and women are from different planets...this is a book for couples on planet Earth who want to have a long-lasting, meaningful relationship. I was completely engrossed by it from the very first page and learned so much from it. This book gives clear, common-sense reasons why so many relationships don't work, and simple, straightforward guidelines for improving your relationships and finding the right one. It also focuses on what to do when you are single (Thou Shalt Get a Life) to make yourself more attractive to others. Some of the guidelines in this book seem a little radical and "politically incorrect", but when you think about them they really make sense. The book is very straightforward and to-the-point with a healthy dose of humor mixed in. Don't "kiss dating goodbye"! Read this book and go about dating the right way! Whether you are a Christian or not I would highly recommend this book to anybody; it should be required reading for anyone who wishes to get married someday. I'm certain that anyone who follows its guidelines closely will experience satisfying results. |
Excellent Book on Dating
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| Review Date: May 1, 2006 |
| Reviewer: Jay Young, Austin, TX USA |
Young and Adams' "The Ten Commandments of Dating" is one of the best books on the subject out there, if not the best. The authors make the subject very accessible, give examples, and show what happens when you break the dating commandments. The 10 commandments of dating are:
1.) Thou Shalt Get a Life. You cannot have a relationhip with someone until your own life is in order.
2.) Thou Shalt Use Your Brain. Don't let hormones and emotional attachment take over your common sense.
3.) Thou Shalt Be Equally Yoked. You and your partner must be equally yoked in physical, spiritual, and social matters if a relationship is going to work.
4.) That Shalt Take it Slow. It will probably cause some inconvenience, but most bad decisions are correctable, with the negative consequences eventually disappearing. However, if you marry the wrong person, there will be significant negative consequences that will last for the rest of your life.
5.) Thou Shalt Set Clear Boundaries. If you don't, you'll be sorry.
6.) Thou Shalt Save Sex For Later. If you opt for immediate gratification, there will be lasting pain and guilt in the long run.
7.) Thou shalt Not Play House. Cohabitation means enjoying the benefits of marriage without having any of the responsibilities that go along with it. The Houston Chronicle did a study, and couples who live together before marriage are 80% more likely to get divorced.
8.) Thou Shalt Fight Fairly. Handling disagreements constructively is one of the keys to making a relationship work. Read the book to find out how.
9.) Thou Shalt Not Ignore Warning Signs. If you see a red flag, heed it. Don't say, "maybe things will change later." They won't.
10.) Thou Shalt Choose Wisely. Now, apply all of the advice, choose wisely, and find the right person.
This book is excellent. I failed to heed commandments 2, 3, 5, and 9 in a recent dating experience, and I paid the price. Don't do the same. Buy the book and take it seriously. |
FINALLY! Some REAL guidelines for the dating scene!
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| Review Date: March 1, 1999 |
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| Finally, REAL stuff, REAL life! I've seen, heard about, read and burned too many relationship books that profess to have the formula for finding true love. THE 10 COMMANDMENTS OF DATING doesn't mention the aligning of the planets or how to be popular in a chat room. It does, however, share tried and true guidelines for REAL singles who desire REAL relationships. Learning more about setting clear boundaries early on, fighting fairly and recognizing warning signs, (otherwize known as RED FLAGS) lead me to buy extra copies for some of my single friends. We don't have to continue making the same mistakes. This book didn't teach me that I should act a certain way to attract a mate. It encouraged me to continue developing my own interests, respect myself and those I date and lastly to "take it slow, get to know!" |
Finally, a non-insulting Christian 'dating' book for all!
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| Review Date: February 4, 2002 |
| Reviewer: Erik Hanson, Denver, Colorado United States |
| I've read my share of 'dating' books, most of the time after a relationship has ended in flames (this time was no exception). I've also read a number of 'Christian' advice books about dating, most of which range from the banal (sex is for marriage) to the ridiculous (don't show physical affection ever!), without preaching. I picked this book up in a spate of post-relationship depression and quickly it helped me to identify many of my frequent mistakes.It mentions God, but it doesn't limit the expression 'don't be unevenly yoked' to 'don't date non-Christians'; it includes things along the lines of 'don't be a Mother Theresa in your relationship'. It also identifies one of the mistakes of relationships as being, if you can believe it, 'praying together'--correctly identifying the stupid over-spiritualization of honest to goodness human infatuation that I've seen too often in relationships. (And have been guilty of.) I read it cover to cover in one sitting at the bookstore. (And wished I had read it *before* I wasted my most recent relationship.) It is also 'worldly' enough to allow me to feel that I can recommend it to any of my friends (Christian or non-Christian). |
Best Dating/Relationship Book, period
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| Review Date: April 3, 2005 |
| Reviewer: Husker Lance, Concord, VA |
This book has the most practical, down to earth advice on dating and relationships of any I've ever read. I honestly think this is a "must read" for anyone who wants to understand how successful relationships work.
This book is not a preachy list of loosely-bible-based ideas like "I Kissed Dating Good-bye." Far from it. This book is a list of 10 Time-Tested, Tried and True, Concrete Principles that anyone who wants to have a successful relationship should live by.
Many of the ideas in this book are things that I've always known to be true (Thou shalt save sex for later, thou shall not play house). However, rather than giving an abstract, explanation, they give specific, realistic advice as to what the consequences are of breaking the commandments. They don't say, "If you have sex, you're further from God." That's true, but it really doesn't drive home the specific reason why you shouldn't. Instead, Young and Adams explain, using real life examples, the major pitfalls of why breaking the commandments will keep you from getting the results you want.
Some of the other commandments (thou shalt set clear boundaries) are things I never really considered all that important, but now I hold them in very high regard having read Young and Adams' ideas.
It helped me realize why a lot of my past relationships have failed. Stuff like "Don't volunteer too much info up front" and "Don't lose touch with your friends" are two biggies that I've broken. It was really helpful to see in words what I've suspected was true for so long.
I highly recommend this book for anyone who is thinking about getting into the dating game. |
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